A Room (Of One’s Own) to Write


I am sitting in a new world, my very first fully functional home office.

Of the many things I’ve been labeled, ‘handy’ is not one of them. But I was recently inspired to undertake the daunting task of transforming our junk room into a more practical space. It was a very cathartic experience. Not only did I have 12 banker boxes full of paperwork from the last 12 years of our life shredded, I actually built a desk and lamp (and by built I mean…followed instructions to put the pieces together using actual tools!). The entire room makeover took 3 weeks and cost a whopping $135. And I did it all quite stealthily while my better half was out of town. Given that I haven’t been able to do much for months because of my back surgery, it was a pleasant surprise and very well received.

On top of being a pack rat, I am a collector of entertainment and sports memorabilia. So the dusty bobblehead boxes and movie figurines safely encased in plastic are now stashed away on the shelves in the closet. There is far less clutter in here now. 

I’ve always had one wall in here with framed press kit and autographed photos. The black and white pictures are a nice contrast against the stormy blue gray paint.  But after I finished framing and hanging everything, I was very surprised to notice a glaring omission from my collection…not one photo or poster from Lost. How is that possible?

It was a lightbulb more than a fire that motivated me to set this room up. As cheesy and/or clichĂ© as it may sound, it was influenced primarily by Virginia Woolf’s A Room of One’s Own.

In the early 90′s, I was fortunate to spend a semester of college studying abroad in London. I took the following Woolf anecdote to heart during my stay there; it encouraged my daily strolls and weekends:


London itself perpetually attracts, stimulates, gives me a play & a
story & a poem, without any trouble, save that of moving my legs
through the streets… To walk alone in London is the greatest rest.

And now I sit in a room of my own, across from a framed poster of The Hours, with Nicole Kidman’s Oscar-winning nose and Woolf’s spirit gazing back at me in an almost challenging manner. It might seem strange but it feels right.

I have no idea what effect this room may have on me or my blogs or my life, but it feels like a fresh start and a new opportunity.

But don’t worry, I won’t sit and stare longingly out the window like Woolf’s cover girl. Not only is my new desk positioned facing the door (I Googled ‘feng shui home office’), I plan to be far more productive than reflective from now on.

Once again I find myself sharing without purpose. I have marketed this site as a pop culture blog, but sometimes I have tangents. This was one of them.

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‘The River Why’…As a Movie?

I’m not sure if I ever imagined it as a film, but one of my favorite books of all time is about to be made into a movie.  Have any of you ever read David James Duncan’s The River Why? If not, add it to your nightstand or wish list immediately.

The decision to adapt this novel for the big screen must have been, at least in part, due to the moderate success of Into the Wild. Although they are very different stories, both follow a man as he explores his life through nature. Without giving too much away, I can report that The River Why ends on a far happier note than Into the Wild.

So far, there is only a very basic site for the movie, which is currently under construction. And although casting hasn’t been announced, rumor has it that Zach Gilford (QB1 Saracen on Friday Night Lights) is set to play the lead. That just might work…

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IT’S MY BIRTHDAY AND I’LL BLOG IF I WANT TO

Here is what we planned to do today, to celebrate the fact that my old soul is now 35:

  • Brunch in Napa at the Boon Fly CafĂ©, for the most amazingly fresh & delicious dozen tiny gourmet sugar donuts in the world
  • Dinner & a movie (Sweeney Todd) at the brand new Sundance Kabuki Cinema in San Francisco, where you can reserve your seats online and eat an upscale meal while viewing the film from the Balcony Bar
  • Go see SF’s all-female band Making Dinner live at the Bottom of the Hill, featuring my buddy’s sister on drums (hi Zarah!)

And thanks to the thunder, lightning, gale force winds, hail and relentless rain (combined with the fact that I shouldn’t be out and about in all of that only three weeks after back surgery), this is what we actually did:

  • Brunch at the closest possible dive
  • Watched Ocean’s Thirteen on DVD
  • Dinner at the closest possible restaurant
  • Border’s; bought a stack of books & a movie (A View to a Kill, my favorite Bond movie ever)

But hey, it turned out to be a great day (and probably a cheaper one at that). No complaints. Had to share.

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I READ, THEREFORE I AM


A few entries ago I posted about my renewed love of reading books; that I have been turning off the laptop at night in favor of some quality nonfiction. Today, as I had the pleasure of cleaning out my personal library (note: sarcasm), I started to ponder the significance of the books we choose to keep and those we discard.

Aside: When I go to someone’s house for the first time, I love to quickly peruse 3 things: the bookcase, the CD and the DVD collection. As a Lit major, I have always been fascinated by what people read for fun and/or in their spare time. And as a pop culture sponge, music and movies are my way of assessing someone’s entertainment IQ.
 
Getting rid of my textbooks from college was a long overdue chore. For some reason I schlepped all of my sociology and feminism books from place to place after college. But as I spent several days on my side recovering in the guest room a few weeks ago, staring at our largest bookshelf, I realized that most of those books now merely serve as a reminder of the activism that I abandoned along with the Birkenstocks back in the early 90′s (thankfully). And I had to ask myself questions like, “will you ever really want to read The Beauty Myth again?” and “seriously, do you think you’ll revisit The Word of a Woman: Feminist Dispatches, 1968-1992?”

But of course I will never abandon certain classics and authors; their novels are always welcome, wherever and as long as I live.

I don’t really have a point.

So I will make a list of my favorites authors and/or books, because you know I can’t resist a good list opportunity.

Raymond Carver
What We Talk About When We Talk About Love: Stories
Where I’m Calling From: Selected Stories

Michael Chabon
The Amazing Adventures of Kavalier & Clay
The Mysteries of Pittsburgh
Summerland
The Yiddish Policeman’s Union

David James Duncan
The Brothers K
The River Why [quite possibly my #1 book]

Nick Hornby
A Long Way Down
About a Boy
Speaking With the Angel (anthology edited by Hornby)

Michael Lewis
Moneyball: The Art of Winning an Unfair Game (a fantastic look behind the scenes of building a professional baseball team, especially for an A’s fan like me)

Annie Proulx
Close Range: Wyoming Stories (includes original Brokeback Mountain short story)

Adrienne Rich [my favorite poet of all time]
The Dream of a Common Language

Sarah Waters
Affinity
Fingersmith
Tipping the Velvet

And a garden variety of other writers grace my shelves as well: Isabel Allende, Jane Austen, Melissa Bank, Michael Cunningham, Dave Eggers, Jeffrey Eugenides, John Irving, Frances Mayes, Rick Moody, David Sedaris, Alice Walker, etc.

Right now, the following books are stacked on the nightstand and awaiting my eyes (after I finish Eat Pray Love, by Elizabeth Gilbert):

  • The Man Who Heard Voices: Or, How M. Night Shyamalan Risked His Career on a Fairy Tale (Michael Bamberger)
  • A Star is Found: Our Adventures Casting Some of Hollywood’s Biggest Movies (Janet Hirshenson & Jane Jenkins)
  • Tiny Ladies in Shiny Pants (by Six Feet Under/Grey’s Anatomy writer Jill Soloway)

What? I like to alternate between entertainment industry insight and intellectually stimulating novels.  Don’t judge me.

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THE SURGERY CHRONICLES, PT 10: THE SPIRITUAL & THE STRIPPER (MY HOLIDAY READING)

Happy Christmas Eve and Merry Christmas. I hope your holiday has been lovely so far. I am quite a happy camper myself, having received the following:

  • Season 3 of Lost
  • Season 3 of The Office
  • Knocked Up
  • Waitress

Combined with two seasons of The Sopranos and Season 2 of Extras, which I gave to my better half, our DVD collection has taken a major leap in the right direction.

So the strangest thing has happened; I have returned to an old but familiar hobby…reading. Actual books. For the first time in years, I am buried in books rather than glued to my laptop. Don’t get me wrong; I love reading and majored in World Literature, so perhaps I have been subconsciously rebelling against the ridiculous number of tomes that I ingested during those four years of college. And I’m sure that this renewed interest is a result of having more time on my hands than usual, and slowing down in general. But I am absolutely loving it.

I recently picked up and am in the middle of reading Eat Pray Love, which is easily one of my favorite books in recent memory. But I’ve reached the spiritual India section, and wanted something on the lighter side for the holiday.

This afternoon I took my first long walk since having surgery. I went to the bookstore and bought Candy Girl, an autobiographical and very entertaining look at a year in the life of Juno screenwriter Diablo Cody…back when she was a stripper in the Midwest. I’ve been obsessed with seeing Juno and haven’t been able to go due to physical limitations, so this was the next best thing. And let me tell you, I can’t put this one down. It is postpone-my-pain-meds-so-I-can-stay-focused good. Her writing and her story are very forthright and refreshing, and I am now certain that Cody deserves every bit of the hype being hurled in her direction. I also recommend her blog, which is just as deliciously frank.

After re-reading that I now have Knocked Up and Waitress on DVD and that I can’t wait to see Juno, it might appear that I am fascinated by pregnancy. Mere coincidence, I assure you.

Happy holidays! Let me know what your favorite gift was, and if you have any book recommendations as well.

- Jo

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I’VE BEEN WATCHING, READING, LISTENING…


I’ll be honest and brief.

The next few weeks are going to be hectic, both professionally and personally. So I decided to sum up my entertainment agenda, and of course I had to share.

Listening:

  • Into the Wild soundtrack
  • Raising Sand (Alison Krauss & Robert Plant)

Reading:

  • Eat, Pray, Love: One Woman’s Search for Everything Across Italy, India and Indonesia (Elizabeth Gilbert)

Watching (Movies):

  • An Inconvenient Truth
  • Art School Confidential
  • Blood Diamond
  • Hard Candy
  • Munich
  • Volver

Watching (TV, in addition to the usual):

  • Kathy Griffin: Straight to Hell
  • Nip/Tuck, Season 4 (Disc 1)
  • Tin Man (miniseries with Zooey Deschanel & Alan Cumming; a sci-fi update of The Wizard of Oz)

Writing (reviews):

  • American Gangster
  • Into the Wild

Don’t forget that my movie contest is still open! You have until this Saturday to recommend a film that I have not seen. If I watch it in December and your choice was my favorite, I will buy you a DVD. Here are the details and rules.

Have a good week, virtual friends.

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