My Love/Hate Relationship with The L Word



Honestly, I watch The L Word because I have to. I feel conflicted about my dedication to the show, however.

I have watched every
single episode since it began in 2004. I originally tuned in because I
was looking forward to a realistic slice of my own life on the small
screen. I have yet to find that. I don’t know why I keep watching.

No other show in my pop culture history has incensed me to the point of repeatedly screaming at the TV, rolling my eyes and wanting to abandon it altogether.  I can’t deny that The L Word is entertaining, but it also gratuitous, exploitive, outrageous and embarrassing at times.

Look, I absolutely love Leisha Hailey as Alice Pieszecki, and we root for Tina and Bette because they are our Jim & Pam, Ross & Rachel, etc. But in my opinion, Mia Kirshner’s Jenny Schecter is quite possibly the most infuriating character on television. Ever. Between you and me, I am crossing my fingers that her new SWF stalker/assistant kills her off (to be fair, I’ve wished for her character to vanish during every single episode and even TiVO fast-forwarded through her scenes from seasons 2-4).

Here is my internal argument, presented by the tiny angel and devil that reside on my shoulders and whisper the following in my ears every Sunday evening as I sit down to watch the damn show…

ANGEL: The L Word is groundbreaking and unique, and it represents you.

DEVIL: No, it represents an unrealistic, glamorous side of the community that I’ve never witnessed, and I’ve lived in both LA and SF. No one I know looks or acts like that.

ANGEL: Not everyone related to characters on Friends either.

DEVIL: This is different. For every 10 versions of Friends or Melrose Place, there was only Queer as Folk and now The L Word.

ANGEL: Imagine the pressure on the creative staff behind The L Word; thousands of women who demand to be represented in some way on the one show that features them.

DEVIL: Throwing in background characters with short hair is a quick fix. They are primarily pandering to the male audience and feeding into widespread stereotypes.

ANGEL: Would you rather watch groups of women hang out and play games in flannel and birkenstocks? It’s a television program, not a reality show.

DEVIL: That’s not fair. But touché.

ANGEL: Your expectations for The L Word are too high and demanding. You should just enjoy the camp, and appreciate that we live in a social climate where a series like this exists and thrives.

So there you have it. Will I continue to watch? I suppose so.

Sigh.

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Friday Night Lights Scores a Reprieve!


It appears that Friday Night Lights has been saved and we will be treated to a third season after all! It hasn’t been entirely confirmed, but the story out there is that NBC is making a deal with DirecTV for the series to air across many platforms.

Huge kudos to the team behind the Save Friday Night Lights campaign for all of their efforts! I’m sure that their actions, on some level, were influential in the decision to renew the series.  All I did was write a silly, angry letter to NBC a few weeks ago when it looked like they were going to cancel FNL.

 

Ladies, your Riggins fix lives on.  Boys, let’s hope for more Tyra and less Lyla.  Personally, I am all about Coach Taylor and Tami.  Mark my words…Kyle Chandler and Connie Britton will both receive long-overdue Emmy nominations!

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Rental Review: Romance & Cigarettes


When you see these names, what do you think?

Steve Buscemi
Bobby Cannavale
James Gandolfini
Eddie Izzard
Mary Louise-Parker
Mandy Moore
Susan Sarandon
Elaine Stritch
Aida Turturro
Christopher Walken
Kate Winslet

On paper, the cast of Romance & Cigarettes reads like a dream; a few Oscar winners and a perennial nominee, a pop star-turned actress, a cross-dressing British comedian, a Broadway veteran and some stellar Sopranos. Add writer/director John Turturro and the Coen Brothers (executive producers) to the mix, and this film should have been a sure thing.

You probably haven’t heard of the movie because it was made 3 years ago, played at several film festivals with high acclaim and then inexplicably went straight to DVD only recently. I can only describe it as an indie musical with an obvious John Waters influence…but far more butch (read: macho).

If you are a regular reader of this blog, you already know that Kate Winslet is my #1 in all categories. In Romance & Cigarettes, Winslet plays a va-va-voom vixen whore who smokes like a chimney and has a mouth like a sailor. Unfortunately, that’s the best part…that and watching Tony Soprano sing and dance.

While this film has potential to grow into a cult classic, I feel that it would play better on the stage than on screen. It doesn’t exactly flow, but I would recommend it as a rainy day rental if you don’t mind a slightly entertaining head-scratcher of a story with a terrific ensemble cast.

[Sidenote: The electricity briefly went out while I was writing this. It is 56 degrees outside with no sign of wind or rain, a typical California evening.  WTF?]

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TV News: Dirt, Grey’s, Lost, Men in Trees, Scrubs, SNL


Here is an update about a few of our favorite shows.

DIRT has returned for a sophomore run on FX. Though I haven’t had a chance to catch last night’s premiere episode, I hear that the series has made vast improvements over last season. It has been a guilty pleasure show for me, and I look forward to the changes.

Perhaps it’s because Private Practice is on hiatus until the fall…Dr. Addison Montgomery (Kate Walsh) will be making a one-episode appearance on GREY’S ANATOMY at some point when it comes back on the air next month.

Fans of Rescue Me might want to tune into LOST this week, as Andrea Roth (a.k.a. Tommy’s wife Janet) makes an appearance in what is rumored to be a Juliet-centric episode.

Another guilty pleasure show that has recently transitioned into Season Pass-worthy is MEN IN TREES. It debuted again last week, and has moved to Wednesday nights on ABC. To be perfectly honest, it took me some time to be able to separate Anne Heche’s character from her real life persona (in my eyes, that whole Ellen debacle is her scarlet letter…even 10+ years later). But I really enjoy the ensemble of this show, and Heche is actually a pretty good actress. Thus, the addition to my weekly TiVO lineup.

It appears that SATURDAY NIGHT LIVE is making a refreshing resurgence. Tina Fey was the perfect post-Writers Strike host to kick off the second half of this season, and Juno star Ellen Page did an excellent  job last week (including a funny monologue with Andy Samberg as Diablo Cody; see photo above). Although I admit that her last skit was a tad confusing, I think that many viewers misinterpreted it…Page did not come out of the closet; she was making fun of the rampant and unsubstantiated rumors about her sexuality. I just think that the writing of that sketch fell flat and short.

Although NBC is currently denying it, there is story circulating that ABC is going to pick up and revive SCRUBS. The series has been on the bubble of cancellation for some time now, but apparently ABC would like to give it at least 18 more episodes over on their network.

If there are any other shows that you’d like me to cover, by all means please let me know!

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