IT’S MY BIRTHDAY AND I’LL BLOG IF I WANT TO

Here is what we planned to do today, to celebrate the fact that my old soul is now 35:

  • Brunch in Napa at the Boon Fly CafĂ©, for the most amazingly fresh & delicious dozen tiny gourmet sugar donuts in the world
  • Dinner & a movie (Sweeney Todd) at the brand new Sundance Kabuki Cinema in San Francisco, where you can reserve your seats online and eat an upscale meal while viewing the film from the Balcony Bar
  • Go see SF’s all-female band Making Dinner live at the Bottom of the Hill, featuring my buddy’s sister on drums (hi Zarah!)

And thanks to the thunder, lightning, gale force winds, hail and relentless rain (combined with the fact that I shouldn’t be out and about in all of that only three weeks after back surgery), this is what we actually did:

  • Brunch at the closest possible dive
  • Watched Ocean’s Thirteen on DVD
  • Dinner at the closest possible restaurant
  • Border’s; bought a stack of books & a movie (A View to a Kill, my favorite Bond movie ever)

But hey, it turned out to be a great day (and probably a cheaper one at that). No complaints. Had to share.

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THE SURGERY CHRONICLES, PT 12: THE FINAL CHAPTER; A SUMMARY


Three weeks ago today, I had back surgery. Today, I can walk and drive without pain, and I returned to work (all without the assistance of medication)!

I have been writing about the process and sharing my experiences, but it’s time to move on and return to a topic I love far more than my little old lady ailments – pop culture.

To sum up, here is how I spent the last 21 days of my life:

  • Books: 2
  • Episodes of 30 Rock (Season 1) on DVD: 2
  • Episodes of Nip/Tuck (Season 4) on DVD: 3
  • Episodes of Lost (Season 3) on DVD: 8
  • Naps: 13
  • Blog entries posted: 15
  • Movies (cable/TiVO/theater): 15
  • Movie-doku puzzles: 21 (13 successes, 8 failures)

In retrospect, I was quite productive for someone recovering from major surgery and under the (prescribed) influence!

I totally appreciated your supportive emails and comments, and I hope you stick around for more entertaining posts. Stay tuned for reviews of Juno (absolutely LOVED it) and Charlie Wilson’s War (disappointing), as well as the Season 5 premiere of The L Word (I watch it because I HAVE to, but yikes).

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LOOKING BACK, MOVING FORWARD: WELCOME TO 2008


I hate that we only make resolutions at the end of each year, as we reflect back on what we didn’t accomplish (again) while looking forward to a new year of possibilities. That being said, I always play along. 

Here is my wish list for 2008:

  1. The Writer’s Strike ends on their terms; they receive fair compensation for their work via digital distribution and also earn an additional $.04 more per DVD sold.
  2. A blue president.
  3. Normal weather. More rain, fewer fires (at least in CA).
  4. A greener effort by all; environmental advances by individuals and companies alike.
  5. World peace? Peace in the Middle East?

And the personal stuff:

  1. More reading, more writing (at least 3-4 blog entries per week) & increased readership.
  2. Health and healing; full recovery from back surgery and return to an active lifestyle.
  3. The annual goals: lose weight, use that gym membership, yada yada yada.
  4. The Oakland A’s contend. That’s all. No expectations of a division championship or beyond.
  5. Fabulous family time on both continents with all 11 nieces & nephews, 5 sets of brother & sister in-laws, both pairs of parents and my hero/idol/role model (my 97 year old grandmother).

Happy New Year, friends and readers.

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I READ, THEREFORE I AM


A few entries ago I posted about my renewed love of reading books; that I have been turning off the laptop at night in favor of some quality nonfiction. Today, as I had the pleasure of cleaning out my personal library (note: sarcasm), I started to ponder the significance of the books we choose to keep and those we discard.

Aside: When I go to someone’s house for the first time, I love to quickly peruse 3 things: the bookcase, the CD and the DVD collection. As a Lit major, I have always been fascinated by what people read for fun and/or in their spare time. And as a pop culture sponge, music and movies are my way of assessing someone’s entertainment IQ.
 
Getting rid of my textbooks from college was a long overdue chore. For some reason I schlepped all of my sociology and feminism books from place to place after college. But as I spent several days on my side recovering in the guest room a few weeks ago, staring at our largest bookshelf, I realized that most of those books now merely serve as a reminder of the activism that I abandoned along with the Birkenstocks back in the early 90′s (thankfully). And I had to ask myself questions like, “will you ever really want to read The Beauty Myth again?” and “seriously, do you think you’ll revisit The Word of a Woman: Feminist Dispatches, 1968-1992?”

But of course I will never abandon certain classics and authors; their novels are always welcome, wherever and as long as I live.

I don’t really have a point.

So I will make a list of my favorites authors and/or books, because you know I can’t resist a good list opportunity.

Raymond Carver
What We Talk About When We Talk About Love: Stories
Where I’m Calling From: Selected Stories

Michael Chabon
The Amazing Adventures of Kavalier & Clay
The Mysteries of Pittsburgh
Summerland
The Yiddish Policeman’s Union

David James Duncan
The Brothers K
The River Why [quite possibly my #1 book]

Nick Hornby
A Long Way Down
About a Boy
Speaking With the Angel (anthology edited by Hornby)

Michael Lewis
Moneyball: The Art of Winning an Unfair Game (a fantastic look behind the scenes of building a professional baseball team, especially for an A’s fan like me)

Annie Proulx
Close Range: Wyoming Stories (includes original Brokeback Mountain short story)

Adrienne Rich [my favorite poet of all time]
The Dream of a Common Language

Sarah Waters
Affinity
Fingersmith
Tipping the Velvet

And a garden variety of other writers grace my shelves as well: Isabel Allende, Jane Austen, Melissa Bank, Michael Cunningham, Dave Eggers, Jeffrey Eugenides, John Irving, Frances Mayes, Rick Moody, David Sedaris, Alice Walker, etc.

Right now, the following books are stacked on the nightstand and awaiting my eyes (after I finish Eat Pray Love, by Elizabeth Gilbert):

  • The Man Who Heard Voices: Or, How M. Night Shyamalan Risked His Career on a Fairy Tale (Michael Bamberger)
  • A Star is Found: Our Adventures Casting Some of Hollywood’s Biggest Movies (Janet Hirshenson & Jane Jenkins)
  • Tiny Ladies in Shiny Pants (by Six Feet Under/Grey’s Anatomy writer Jill Soloway)

What? I like to alternate between entertainment industry insight and intellectually stimulating novels.  Don’t judge me.

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THE SURGERY CHRONICLES, PT 11: HEALING WELL, FAILING MISERABLY


Oh friends, I have a confession to make. Let’s start with the good news though.

Two weeks after back surgery, I feel MUCH better. I can walk around comfortably, and sitting down for longer than 15 minutes at a time is less painful every day. I am also practicing driving, as I prepare to go back to work next week. Considering how horrible the first two days were following the procedure, I couldn’t be happier with the progress of my recovery. And believe it or not, I’m tired of feeling stoned all day (in a prescribed-medicine kind of way), so as my re-entry back into the workplace and behind the wheel approaches, I am easing off of the good stuff.

And now, for the disappointing news…at least to the 14 of you who were nice enough to enter my Recommend a Movie/Win a Movie contest. I am a bum. I haven’t watched very many of the films that you suggested. Here are some excuses.

  1. I couldn’t drive to the video store to stock up on rentals.
  2. I am somewhat cheap; my Netflix subscription is only for 1 DVD at a time.
  3. I am lazy. I started to TiVO tons of movies I haven’t seen, and VERY few of the ones you recommended have been on cable lately.
  4. I have been watching at least two episodes of Lost (Season 3) per day, taking detailed notes in anticipation of a Season 4 preview blog next month. Nerd alert!

So I am extending this contest into the new year. Even though I won’t have as much time after returning to work, I plan to watch all of your selections. Obviously it will take a few months to get through all 35 movies, so I thank you in advance for you patience!

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THE SURGERY CHRONICLES, PT 9: HIATUS FOR THE HOLIDAYS


I want to wish all of you and yours a very warm, safe and happy holiday. Personally, I am looking forward to a change of scenery. As much as I love this house, I am ready to leave it after spending 8 solid days within these walls.

I also wanted to thank you for bookmarking this site and reading entries throughout the year. The number of visits to this blog has increased by more than 100% from a year ago, and I am very grateful to have the eyes and support of so many friends, family and absolute strangers. I encourage you to come back in ’08, and leave comments in response to any post that you agree or disagree with! Of course I aim to make improvements, and am open to suggestions as well (content, format, etc.).

Over the next few days, I will be out of town with family. I do not know if I will have time to blog, so this may be the last entry for a week or so.

Merry merry.

- Jo

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